This is during a party when 2 well-dressed rich women gossip about whats going on around them. Who divorced who, who got pregnant with who, which girl or guy dressed the worse, who got bankrupt...and so on. They care about others way too much.
Here is a woman hasn't eaten anything for 4 days. Her child has a high fever and her husband is dieing. The daughter behind her has only one single dress to wear which is almost tearing. The woman only wants to survive. More than herself, she wants her kids to survive. She cares about her family.